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Are you looking for ways to create win-win situations with your children so neither you nor your child is a loser? You should be! Kvols explains how children are more respectful and cooperative when we don’t act like control freaks. It’s a short book, and while it hits the high notes, it might lack some practical application for toddlers years. Don’t get me wrong, this book is an asset to any parenting-stage, but perhaps it’s not as robust for that specific age.
Have you ever thought, “why me,” or “what’s wrong with my kid?” If so, you’re going to want to check out the appendix entitled: “Common Behaviors from 18 Months – 18 Years.” It’s a great list of possibly annoying, normal behaviors at each age. For example, knowing that hitting is developmentally normal for a 2 year old may help parents move from reacting and taking the behavior personally, to responding in a way that ensures safe, and teaches the child what to do instead.
The top priority should be to understand your feelings and your child’s feelings… The application of rules where there is no relationship results in rebellion.
Redirecting Children’s Behavior by Kathryn J. Kvols
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