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No Drama Discipline is the book that really ignited my passion and pursuit of respectful parenting. This book not only takes you on a deep dive into a child’s neurological development, but also provides insights into how well-intentioned parents can inadvertently make misbehavior worse. The book uses well placed cartoon illustrations to make the text come alive and drive home key concepts. In the back of the book you’ll even find a Connect & Redirect Refrigerator Sheet for a quick reference when you need a reminder or a respectful tool!
I believe there are a lot of Christian parents who know what they don’t want to do (spank) but don’t know what to do instead. No Drama Discipline walks parents through some popular alternatives that need to be kicked to the curb, like time outs and punishment. Sending kids away for a time out deprives them of the opportunity to work on problem solving skills. But let’s be real, sometimes we parents need a time-out to calm ourselves down! (Guilty!) We can invite inner reflection and build executive functions by staying close to our child and calming down together when they are disregulated.
Ultimately, our job is to give unconditional love and calm presence to our kids even when they’re at the worst. Especially when they’re at their worst.
No Drama Discipline by Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson
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